Let f(x)=2x2+3x-1, so f(x+h)=2(x+h)2+3(x+h)-1=2x2+4hx+2h2+3x+3h-1.
The difference quotient is (f(x+h)-f(x))/h=
(2x2+4hx+2h2+3x+3h-1-(2x2+3x-1))/h=
(2x2+4hx+2h2+3x+3h-1-2x2-3x+1)/h= (matching colour terms cancel out)
(4hx+2h2+3h)/h=4x+2h+3.
When h becomes 0 the difference quotient becomes 4x+3, which is the derivative or differential of f(x) with respect to x.